Secrets to a Long Lasting Marriage (for the D.I.Y. Rock Star)
This post loosely accompanies Gab & Jam,
episode 250 Secrets to a Long Lasting Marriage (for the D.I.Y. Rock Star)
(video: https://bit.ly/250marriagevid and podcast: https://bit.ly/250marriagepod )
As an overarching principle, you should marry your best friend. By doing that, you will make this whole list easier to understand and easier to employ. If that is NOT the foundation of your marriage, there is MORE of the likelihood that these guidelines will be harder to do and, thus, the union harder to sustain. By developing a friendship over time, you’ve seen them through a variety of different moods, and you’ve even had your arguments. However, through all of that, you remain friends. You decide that your friendship is worth more than the drawbacks that you’ve discovered and you cherish THAT more than anything else. Therefore, you overcome the adversities and figure out how to hold on to that thing that keeps you together. THAT is the MOST important ingredient to you both making it work.
